Blu-ray Review: Mother and Child (2010)

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Some people never get over their first loves and it's infinitely harder when that love produced more love in the form of a child given away by the child mother in love – Karen – at only age fourteen.

Keeping a journal for the baby girl she never came to raise and writing letters that she's never been able to send, when we first encounter Karen (Annette Bening) nearly forty years later it's immediately evident that the pain of her first love still weighs so heavily that it affects her relationship with everyone whom she comes into contact.

A veritable iceberg who keeps others at a distance, controlling her environment similar to the way she methodically cares for her patients as a physical therapist and her own aging mother we sense she's never quite forgiven, Karen is a woman who is still very much the child inside, with maternal instincts that have been pushed by the wayside, left to the childish scribblings in a diary.

And quite to the contrary, Karen's own unknown fiercely independent daughter Elizabeth (Naomi Watts) tells her new employer (Samuel L. Jackson) that not only does she not want to marry or have children but that she doesn't seem to have any close personal relationships with anyone, including her adoptive parents (one deceased) nor a desire to see the girl she calls “her majesty” who abandoned her at such a young age.

Equally difficult and just as prone to keeping things in control, there is no softness to Elizabeth nor a wish to write letters to a woman she's never met outside of the womb and delivery room. And when she sees a stable man like her widower boss or a happily married soon-to-be-father neighbor, she wastes little time in squashing any tender emotion with calculating destructive seduction where she alone calls all the shots.

Using her sexuality as a weapon in an offensive front she must've initiated as a teen, sneaking across the border to have her tubes tied before she was of age, Elizabeth discovers that just like her natural mother, sometimes life has a way of interfering just when we've made other plans as an unexpected arrival of a brand new love – whether it's an adult or a child – enters their lives at roughly the same moment.

Further linking the two storylines together is the plight of Lucy (Kerry Washington) – easily the most relatable character in the entire film – who, after several years of trying to get pregnant decides to adopt along with her slightly less enthusiastic husband who still longs to have a family that's his by blood.

Using the same adoption agency that Karen utilized as a pregnant teen, Rodrigo Garcia's emotionally draining yet beautifully crafted work is as filled with criss-crosses, coincidences, thematic overlap, missed opportunities, and unexpected twists as we've witnessed in his other, largely female-centric works such as Nine Lives and Things You Can Tell Just By Looking At Her.

As the filmmaking son of Gabriel Garcia Marquez, the former cinematographer and HBO house director's most ambitious work thus far reunites him with some of the same cast members that have populated his other films. But it's through his first time collaborations with Watts, Bening, and Washington that really makes Mother and Child excel on another level that moves beyond the page as, perhaps due to his penchant for poetic license and fact that English was not his first language, some of the dialogue is clumsily awkward and feels more like thoughts we'd write down in diaries rather than say aloud.

And admittedly those who've seen his previous work along with the films of Mother and Child's executive producer Alejandro Gonzalex Inarritu (Babel, 21 Grams) may have begun to grow weary of the same overly connected, slightly protracted plotlines of the work that you start to foreshadow long before the ultimate payoffs click into place. However, in this case, it's so emotionally powerful that between blinking back tears and being stunned by the power of the actors who dominate, somehow you're willing to forgive all contrivances in what is otherwise a very admirable film.

While a lighter touch especially in his speech filled dialogue would've helped make certain sequences feel less heavy-handed, like his beautiful trio of leading ladies, Garcia's heart is always in the right place. And this makes Mother and Child an imperfect yet highly satisfying film to watch that you may find that it takes a little while to get over, as if at times we'd been witnessing pure maternal love.

Blu-ray Review: "In every house on every block, there's a drama going on," Annette Bening explains in one of two in-depth Blu-ray behind-the-scenes featurettes included on Sony's recent stellar release of Mother and Child.

And as writer/director Rodrigo Garcia discovered over the ten years it took to write one of 2010's most underrated Altmanesque ensemble pieces, dramas for grown-ups and particularly ones that involve situations with which we can all relate that are set in middle class neighborhoods of regular un-exotic locales are the hardest kind of motion pictures to get financed in Hollywood.

With Naomi Watts being the first performer to sign on, quickly followed by Samuel L. Jackson, this largely independent made update on the type of '40s Bette Davis style women's weepies gradually found its way into a limited theatrical run. And despite garnering some terrific praise in an only-in-show-business brand of irony, Bening's other 2010 modern family art-house hit The Kids Are All Right usurped the power of Child, sending it back to the kids table as audiences gravitated to fierce and funny Bening over fierce and mopey Bening.

Yet in reacquainting myself with Rodrigo Garcia's work in preparation for this Blu-ray update of my earlier review just a few weeks after seeing The Kids Are All Right, it struck me that in spite of how good Bening is in Kids, she's being nominated for the wrong film this award's season.

Yes, Kids is admirable for its mature, matter-of-fact handling of a same-sex couple who've raised two teens. However, ultimately I wasn't as moved by Kids as I thought I would be due to some cliched characterizations, an illogical conclusion to the rift in the adults' relationship and the shocking double standard of gratuitous heterosexual sex that seemed forcefully edited into Kids to perhaps appeal to a liberal yet still slightly squeamish straight audience.

While nonetheless, Kids and Child are both worthwhile and refreshing in the way that they tap into an extraordinary need adult filmgoers have to see "our" stories told onscreen that unite us rather than divide us, it's almost as tragic as some of the tragedies experienced in Garcia's film that a large number of viewers will let this sleeper pass them by unaware, making it all the more vital to give this Child a try and inspire others to do the same.

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